Click over to the NYTimes below to read the full essay: Source: Why You Will Marry the Wrong Person - NYTimes.com
ITS one of the things we are most afraid might happen to us. We go to great lengths to avoid it. And yet we do it all the same: We marry the wrong person.
Partly, its because we have a bewildering array of problems that emerge when we try to get close to others. We seem normal only to those who dont know us very well. In a wiser, more self-aware society than our own, a standard question on any early dinner date would be: And how are you crazy?