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Kurt Vile on Fatherhood & The Creative Life

"You can’t really set up any rules... It’s all pretty maddening but really fun." Jeff Gangemi interviews Kurt Vile about his new album, fatherhood and the creative life.

Vote: Do you talk to your kids about drug and alcohol addiction?

In a recent poll, we asked parents to share their top three fears about their kid's future. Drug and alcohol addiction was the surprising answer. This inspired us to ask a new question: As parents,...

The Internet: The Double-Edged Sword of Parenthood

The internet is one the most unnerving tools for mothers, because it can add anxiety instead of removing it.

If You Should Do It For Your Kid, You Should Do It For Yourself

To all of the parents out there: you deserve to feel good each day. You deserve some praise - and self-praise - for the things you do every day.

Vote: Do You Restrict Your Kid's Screentime?

In today’s poll, we’re asking parents if they restrict the amount of time their kids spend interacting with screens. Note that we didn't distinguish TV screens from smartphones / tablets. You can ...

So Much of Parenting Is Making An Informed Gut Decision

Redshirting is common practice. But when it comes to this decision, my husband and I will continue to be informed but also go with our gut.

Back to School Blues: A Poem

The first day of school has come and gone, but I bet you'll still relate to the wonderful poem "Back to School Blues," sent to us by poet Diana Whitney.

Poll: What is your #1 biggest concern about your kids and social media?

In today’s poll, parents are sharing their biggest concerns about their kids and social media. As always, view everyone's results after you vote.

5 Ways to Connect With Our Kids

Kids don’t come with instruction manuals, but with a little love and a lot of patience, we all have the ability to raise wonderful children.

Poll: The Birds & The Bees

In today’s poll, we’re asking parents to share when they learned about the birds and the bees, vs when they think their own kids should learn about this topic. We also ask if sex education should ...

Poll: What Are Your Top 3 Fears About Your Kids' Future?

In today's poll, we're asking parents about their biggest fears about their kids' future. It's a grim poll, but it's illuminating to know the fears we share as parents. View results after you...

Moving Day

NYC. My beloved home for 13 years. Then on April 30th 2014, we - my husband, two kids, one dog and I - said good-bye. It wasn’t a particularly sweet parting. NYC pretty much chewed us up and spit u...

Share Your Kid's 30 Answers

There was instantly a huge response to our recent post "30 Questions to Ask Your Kid Instead of 'How Was Your Day?'" Clearly many parents share the pain of the typical one syllable reply - "Good." ...

Take the 10-Question "Kids and Social Media" Survey

We'd like to know your thoughts about how your kids use (or aren't allowed to use) social media. We're curious how real parents weigh the pros and cons of this surprisingly complicated issue. The ...

Admit It, Baby Carrots Are Gross

Bagged baby carrots are convenient and cute. And orange. But in my house, we've gone back to the original convenient-cute-and-orange snack: cheese doodles. Just kidding. Carrot sticks. That's becau...

Why Teen-Agers Are the Worst - The New Yorker

Why are teens, in some ways, more difficult to parent than toddlers? Science may have some answers. The frontal lobes are the seat of what’s sometimes called the brain’s executive function. T...

3 Steps to Better Family Routines for the New School Year

You want to enjoy your time with your kids, not spend it fighting about breakfast, getting ready, or homework. Thankfully, routines help solve that problem.

"Be consistent" - Susan Sontag's Parenting List

Lists have a bad name on the internet, where websites use them to suck in viral views: "Top 10 Celebrity Bikini Fails," "5 Foods You Should Never Eat if You Want to Lose Flab!" But in real life I ...

Lucky Charms and Donuts for Breakfast

I've accepted that my in-laws consider "spoiling kids" with sugary treats part of their grandparent job description.

The Milestones That Don't Make Baby Books, Like Smart-Assery

First steps, successful potty training, emerging teeth- all milestones worthy of the baby book. But maybe we should make room for some new ones.

I Was Rejected by Sub Pop in 1993 – But My Kids Think I’m a Rockstar

I bet you didn’t know I used to be a rock star. In my suburban bedroom. Beyond singing into a hairbrush, I spent my teenage years with an acoustic guitar, a black and white composition book, and ...

Audio Stories for Family Road Trips and Back-to-School

We've previously mentioned how much we love Sparkle Stories. They produce wonderful original audio stories full of non-preachy life lessons, happiness, and humor for kids up to about third grade. B...

When You Think Your Kids Aren't Listening, Read This

This week I had a daily gift. For the first time in nine months, I had a few hours to myself each day. You might think this is a small gift, but I don't. I’m a parent of young kids, a full-time tea...

Try This Next Time Your Kids Ignore You - And Before You Start Yelling

As parents, most of us will ask our kids to get dressed, or brush their teeth, or go get their homework so we can get in the car. As kids, they typically ignore that first request. We then follow...